Tuesday, April 14, 2009

10 hints to HAPPINESS


i recently read a really great article with 10 hints to making your daily life more happy. so i thought i would pass the highlights on to all of you- here goes- enjoy!!

1- PLAY YOUR STRENGTHS
"as you are seeking contentment, it's better to focus on your assets rather than try to compensate your weaknesses"


2- GET A HOBBY "creativity helps people adapt to life by making them more flexible and open to experiences, this then in turn fosters satisfaction and self-esteem"

3- SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFE "people who say making a lot of money is important to them are more likely to experience depression, anxiety, and headaches- and less likely to report being satisfied with their lives. those pleasures only bring the kind of happiness that disappears quickly. to achieve lasting contentment, you need to focus on experiences, not things"

4- DECIDE THEN MOVE ON "people who continually seek out the best of everything- be it a job, a mate, or a lap-top, are more stressed and less-fulfilled. to reduce anxiety, don't revisit a decision already made. tell yourself that good enough is good enough"

5- WIDEN YOUR CIRCLE OF FRIENDS
"relationships with close friends are one of the best vehicles to hapiness. these bonds give us a sense of purpose. research shows that friends keep us healthy, reduce anxiety, and even foster longevity.


6- ACCEPT THE FACT THAT SOME PEOPLE WON'T LIKE YOU "if you take everyone's judgment to heart, you surrender your own ability to view yourself clearly"

7- ACCENTUATE THE GOOD "gratitude is the cornerstone of happiness. it's all about noticing what's right in our lives instead of what's wrong"

8- SILENCE TOXIC SELF-TALK
"research shows that thinking about your mistakes obsessively drags you down and gives you an increasingly negative disposition"


9- MATCH YOUR INTENTIONS TO YOUR ACTIONS
"we find happiness when we derive pleasure as well as meaning to what we do"


10- MOVE IT "to or three short bursts of exercise each day can help to improve our outlook and attitude"

PS- eating home-made curry on brown rice will make you happy too.

5 comments:

Kar said...

Good advice. Something I just barely realized over the past couple of years is that everyone is going through something hard. Everyone. That's just the way life is. So I like these ten ideas, because they can help you to create your own happiness.

glorenzow said...

mmmmmm, brown japanese curry. we eat it almost weekly.

Dennis & Hollie said...

Love, love, love this post! Okay...maybe I am like GREG and really just want some good curry!

glorenzow said...

@Holly: S&B Golden Curry! Most grocery stores around here carry it. Add some potatoes, onions and carrots and YUM. If you can't find any and want some, lemme know. I'll send some to you. This stuff:

http://www.asianfoodgrocer.com/product/golden-curry-med-hot-3-5-oz

gayeh said...

great advice.....words of wisdom to live by! i want some curry and brown rice! love ya